Do you love flowers but hate bees and wasps?
Flowers are blooming everywhere during the summer, and the markets are full of fresh fruits and veggies. It’s such a vibrant, colorful time of year. But while we’re enjoying all that beauty and flavor, most of us aren’t exactly thrilled to see bees and wasps buzzing around.
Still, here’s the thing — without them, we wouldn’t have nearly as much to enjoy. 🐝
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The tough part is, bees and wasps are having a rough time lately. Their numbers are shrinking — fast. Between habitat loss, pesticides, disease, and climate change, it’s getting harder for them to survive, let alone thrive. And considering how much of our food and flower-filled landscapes depend on their hard work, that should be a big deal to all of us- because it does and will affect all of us!!
But the good news? There’s a lot we can do — right at home.
You don’t need to be a beekeeper or a scientist to help. Just planting a few pollinator-friendly flowers can make a big difference. Here are a few great options that bees and wasps love:
Lavender
Coneflowers (Echinacea)
Black-eyed Susans
Milkweed
Wild thyme
Bee balm
Yarrow
Skip the pesticides when you can — even the “natural” ones can be harmful to pollinators. And if you’ve got a quiet corner in your yard, let it stay a little wild. .
Even just noticing and appreciating these tiny creatures more — and not reaching for the flyswatter or something such as Raid every time to kill them— is a simple but powerful step.
Did You Know?
Some wasps are expert pollinators and natural pest control. They help manage pests like aphids, caterpillars, and even flies — so your garden stays healthy without chemicals.
Not all bees live in hives! In fact, most native bees — like mason bees and leafcutter bees — live alone in small holes in the ground or in hollow stems. They’re gentle, non-aggressive, and incredibly efficient pollinators.🐝
Wasps also play a critical role in ecosystems as decomposers. Some species help clean up by feeding on dead insects and organic waste.
One-third of the food we eat depends on pollinators like bees — from apples and blueberries to almonds and even coffee! 🐝
Bees and wasps often get the spotlight, but they’re part of a whole team of pollinators working behind the scenes to keep ecosystems thriving and food growing. Here's a list of other important pollinators you might not think about right away:
🦋 Butterflies
Elegant and colorful, butterflies are great at spreading pollen as they flit from flower to flower — especially during the day.
🦇 Bats
In warmer climates (like the Southwest U.S., Mexico, and tropical regions), certain bat species pollinate night-blooming plants like agave (hello, tequila!) and bananas.
🐦 Hummingbirds
These tiny birds are drawn to bright, tubular flowers. While sipping nectar, they brush against pollen and carry it flower to flower.
🪰 Flies
It might sound surprising, but many fly species — especially hoverflies — are fantastic pollinators. Some even mimic bees!
🐞 Beetles
Beetles were among the very first pollinators on Earth. They still play a role today, especially with ancient flowers like magnolias.
Moths
While butterflies are daytime pollinators, moths work the night shift. They love pale, fragrant flowers that open after dark.
Want to help pollinators?
🌸 Plant native flowers
🚫 Avoid pesticides
🏡 Leave some wild areas
🌾 Include a mix of bloom times for year-round food If you’ve got a patch of yard, a few planters, or even just a sunny corner, planting things like lavender, milkweed, or native wildflowers can be a real gift to these little pollinators. Even just leaving a few “messy” areas for wildflowers to grow — like Queen Anne’s lace or goldenrod — helps more than you’d think.
🐝🐝 Allergic to Bees? Stay Safer and Protect Pollinators
***Being allergic to bee stings is scary and serious and you should always use your own best judgement and follow doctors orders *** — but here are a few suggestions that might help you stay a little more protected from the bees coming near you.
✅ What You Can Do:
Keep food and drinks covered outdoors.
Avoid strong perfumes and floral prints.
Wear light-colored clothing outdoors.
Stay calm; don’t swat at bees.
Seal garbage bins tightly.
Contact a beekeeper if a hive is too close to your deck or patio.
Plant pollinator-friendly flowers away from living areas.
Don't sit outdoors. near flowers or flowering trees!
🚫 What to Avoid:
Don’t spray insecticides near flowers or nesting sites.
Don’t destroy hives yourself — call a professional.
Excellent, thorough, important article. Changing my pest control contract today to get rid of wasp control. (Knew about the bees early on so always protected them.) Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI don't hate them...they just scare me, esp. the wasps.
ReplyDeletegreat title for this excellent post!! i have most of these plants in my garden, and i am keenly aware of their importance. i plant a lot of herbs outside to attract butterflies as they will lay eggs on parsley and dill!! if you have read my blog for any length of time, i'm not sure, i raise butterflies!! many towns, including the town i live in have pollinator gardens, they are on the garden state parkway as well!!
ReplyDeleteSo very true; I don't mind the bees but we have real problems with mud wasps here near the water. They make huge nests everywhere-- inside our kayaks, inside our patio umbrellas, under our chairs, etc. and they are angry when anything disrupts them. It's amazing how quickly they can build a giant nest too! I'd love to know how to encourage them to build their nests in other "wild" areas of our yard and leave our living spaces alone as that doesn't often end well for them since they are supposed to be great pollinators.
ReplyDeleteI've never been that keen on wasps!
ReplyDeleteHaving said that we do need to encourage the pollinators.
We have quite a few wild flower beds locally which really help, and the wild flowers look very pretty too.
All the best Jan
It’s so easy to help them but we are reluctant to do it, and industry keeps on developing more powerful poisons. It never changes. Lots of rhetoric, lots of promises, good intentions yet the death march continues.
ReplyDeleteWe’ve seen lots of bees lately. They are enjoying the wild roses along the trails.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the information.
ReplyDeleteTotally get that — wasps aren’t exactly the most cuddly creatures!
ReplyDeleteStill, they play a pretty important role in keeping things blooming and balanced.
Supporting pollinators, even the prickly ones, is a small way we can all make a big impact.
These are gorgeous flowers. I honestly get scared when I see bees and wasps I run. Lol
ReplyDeleteWe've had a big push to grow our bee population. You now see hives in so many unusual places. Great post!
ReplyDeleteTandy (Lavender and Lime) https://tandysinclair.com
We have planted wildlife-friendly flowers and shrubs for years, but even so have noticed insect numbers declining year by year. It's very sad.
ReplyDeleteI have really noticed this the last year or two. We've even noticed the firefly population is dwindling. It's mostly because of the chemical sprays and lawn fertilizers. We don't use either but the wind scatters that stuff all around.
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